So, you will have seen the viral video of the Korean expert being invaded by his children.
It's hilarious, right?
And I - and many others - started joking about how the nanny/maid would be fired after that episode.
Except she's not his nanny, she is his wife.
I made an assumption about that woman - and that man - based on this little bit of film and while I still think this footage is one of the funniest things I've ever seen, I am utterly ashamed of myself for making that judgement about this lady.
Jung-A-Kim is his wife.
Now, while she herself is probably none the wiser for any smart comment and hopefully finds the whole thing as hilarious as the rest of us, I stereotyped this woman in under two minutes from this clip.
Yet I believe myself not to be a bigot. And yet I made a hideously bigoted assumption. I can't tell you how ashamed of myself I am.
Maybe you think that I'm over-reacting and there is no real harm done. At what point does unintentional bigotry tip into REAL harm done - the same moment as intentional bigotry.
Ashamed enough that I have to apologise in public.
I have learned my lesson, I promise you.
11 Mar 2017
28 Oct 2016
Last December there was a marital upset here on Mount Olympus which included a furious demand (from me) that We Go On Holiday ABROAD to which Tartarus reluctantly acquiesced.
So, it is now October and we have not been abroad. Tartarus has put the ball firmly in my half of the park - if I want to go abroad, I have to organise it myself.
I start looking at 10 days in Italy, only to find that in October direct flights to Italy are rarer than moments of lucidity for Donald Trump. Adding in flights to London AND accommodation in Italy soon sends the holiday spiralling up the pound signs.
8 Oct 2016
|Me and Tom|
Me: possibly having a mid-life crisis
My night attire is usually by The Factory Shop (usually flammable) or M&S (usually flannelette) and my robe is a fuchsia pink fleecy number that caused Sonshine and my SIL to drop into quivering piles of suppressed laughter when I modelled it after birthday presentation from Juno in August.
I look like a particularly flamboyant flying squirrel in it.
18 Aug 2016
|These are not the abs of a woman|
addicted to co-op almond croissants
I have no earphones, so I am kinda guessing what's going on. Richard Wilson is on screen. I hope, as I jog, that he has won an award. Back home later, turns out he has had a heart attack. Not my best guess...
17 Aug 2016
|Too many fecking mirrors|
Of course, if I had been expecting to see myself naked from a million different angles I would have sucked my tummy in and stuck my ass out ... or maybe just not showered for the entire weekend.
BUT, as it was, I suddenly encountered myself in my full Rubansesque nakedness. Which would be FINE if I was living in the 1600s (I would have been a BABE) but not so hot in 21st century Scotland.
It wasn't good.
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